Values are What We Live By, Teach ‘These’ 5 Most Important Values to Your Children

Mumbai : Values are what we live by. They are what ensure our happiness and success. Foundation of all the values are best laid during childhood. But there are scores of them, and such little time.

Children learn what we do. Hence, one has to be very careful about the way they react in front of children. If you are the parent, your child would be most affected by your behavior as you are his role model. Hence, be in control of your emotions when a child is around.

Second point is patience. Your child may commit mistakes which can make you angry. But, remember that a child lacks the ability to rationalize acts that we adults possess. Nor do they commit mistakes on purpose. On the contrary, an angry parent would only push the child away even when he wants to come and confess his mistakes.

So, be calm and approachable for your child. Explain his mistakes to him, and encourage him to make amends as well through this act you are teaching your child another important value in life, that is, forgiveness!!!

Your child is your reflection, do pour good values in them. They act copying your deeds. So, be careful and change yourself before you want to teach your children good values!!!

 

Every parent knows how important are the values in life, and when it comes to their children, they want to put in their best effort in this. Here is a list of important values to teach children that would help them shape their life in the right way.

 

Here are five important values to teach children:

 

  1. Honesty:

Why is honesty so important? Because it is this single value that would save your child from straying onto the wrong path. Once your child is honest, he will accept his mistake, and will be open to your advice that would prevent him from repeating the same mistake.

 

This is the most essential value that a child has to be taught. Ironically, it is this same value that children are most prone to lose. Children are born without the knowledge of deceit.

 

  1. Courage

It is about the courage to speak the truth, the courage to accept a mistake. If a child has the courage to own up for his actions, he would seldom resort to lying.

A child who has the courage to stand up for his beliefs brings a desired change in the society.

 

  1. Forgiveness

Children who don’t learn to forgive, grow up to be bitter adults. Through the act of forgiving, children develop the value of compassion. But do you just order your child to forgive the action of a fellow child who has hurt him? No, that won’t work.

 

Listen to your child and explain that holding on the grudge would hurt them even more.

 

  1. Optimism

Life is full of failures and disappointments. The only thing that keeps one going in times is optimism. This is an important value for children as every now and then, their abilities would be challenged.

 

As many experiences would be for the first time for them, disappointments are bound to take place. If their confidence is dented early on during childhood, their chances for success later in life would also be dim.

 

  1. Sharing

Teach your child to share what he has, with those around him. It doesn’t need to be with other children. If no other child is around, ask him to offer his chocolate to all adults in the family.

 

The piece of chocolate may be small, and you would want your child to have it all but do take small bit off that little bar once in a while so that your child knows that, if he offers his goodies then he has to mean it as well.

 

This value of sharing will help him experience the joy of giving and sharing. He would be more selfless, and as an adult would be able to act in greater good of all.

However, parents do not need to worry as one value is linked with another. For instance, as a child is taught forgiveness, he learns to be compassionate. As he picks the value of optimism, a sense of persistence is instilled in him.

Comments are closed.